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What Are The Traits That Girls Actually Look For In A Guy?

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Girls Actually Look For In A Guy

There’s this theory that says girls don’t really know what they want in a man/guy. They want something and the exact opposite. For instance, she wants him funny but not too funny that he uses jokes in the middle of a serious conversation, or she would want him hot that her girl-friends get jealous but not hotter than her so she won’t constantly try to beat him in looking better or one second, she would want him to text her and make time for her and the next, she would want her own space and personal time alone.

Every girl has something different she looks for in a guy, but certain characteristics that matter more than others. While the first thing girls notice is a guy’s appearance, a guy’s personality will quickly shine through.

Girls are never sure what they really want in a guy but for sure they’ll need some of the things that are mentioned below.

  1. Attractiveness: Dress well and look good no matter where you are. You never know when you’d bump into the woman of your dreams. It’s a simple tip, but something almost all guys never focus on. Groom yourself well with quality man products and complex perfumes that smells great on you.
  2. Be assertive: Women love a man who’s not fickle minded. Have an ego and believe in yourself and your decisions. As hard as this may seem, be the man who can put someone else in place when they overstep the line or misbehave with you.
  3. Good sense of humor: Making a girl laugh can heighten her attraction, as laughter is a natural aphrodisiac. Being funny can set a guy apart and make him appear more attractive, easy to relate to, and easy to approach. Laughter also increases positive feelings, so girls will automatically think more highly of a guy who makes them smile and laugh. The Art Of Charm says, making a girl laugh will make you memorable and create a lasting attraction. It takes less than a minute for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. And that’s all you need to impress a girl. All girls know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. Have a light hearted and fun approach towards life and try to look at the bright side all the time.
  4. Charming personality: Who wouldn’t like a guy who knows how to charm a girl? A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most men have. In fact, meeting a man who knows to charm a girl is a hard task for any woman. Improve your body language around women and learn your manners around them.
  5. Good body image: Go build those biceps and those six packs. When you work out, you look healthier and smart, and clothes look good on you. If you want to attract a girl at first sight, you have to remember that appearances do matter. A lot.
  6. Confidence: Confidence is probably the number one thing that girls look for most in most of guys. A guy who is self-confident has high self-esteem and believes in himself. This quality makes a guy more attractive because he genuinely feels good and likes himself-and girls are seeking these qualities in themselves. Girls especially love confidence because being around a confident guy makes them feel like he can be counted on. Confidence is a great trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he knows he’s right.
  7. Good conversationalist: Girls love to engage and communicate, so a guy who is willing to have long conversations or who is a good listener will set himself apart from the rest. Developing conversation skills might mean learning how to listen, thinking up good questions to ask girls, and showing girls that you like them for more than just their physical appearance. Shaunti.com also reported that girls want a guy who listens to what they’re saying and not saying.
  8. Action taker: Girls adore guys that are action takers not only speakers because actions do speak louder than any words said. Show her that you’re capable of taking care for her.
  9. Good manners and respect: Most girls are impressed by guys who have manners and respect her. Just do nice things. Hold the door open for her, offer your jacket when she’s cold, listen to her and make an effort to find common interests (bonus if you find you’re both passionate about some of the same things!). Make your interactions about her and try to put her at ease as much as you can. Everyone wants to feel respected, says speaker, radio host, and author Dawson McAllister’s TheHopeLine.com, and that especially goes for relationships. Guys can show girls respect, he says, by never pressuring her sexually, never talking down to her, pointing out her strengths, being respectful to the other important people in her life, and more.
  10. Amusing: Guys with a special talent become instantly popular and likeable, even if they may score low in the other departments. For example if a guy can play the guitar and woo an audience with his melodious voice, girls will definitely drool. If a guy can play the violin like a superstar, he will definitely have a following of girls who are into music. Special talent is always hard to find and is bound to draw a following. Get the point?
  11. Dependable: Being dependable is probably the guy’s ability to help her out in times of need, back her up in an argument, speak to her on the phone whenever she wants and hang out with her when she’s bored. Also helping her out with important issues and being there for her is important. be the guy who can be there, no matter what. Mr. Dependable is always in demand and dependability is a trait that every women like their man to have.

These are the most common traits that any women are looking for in a man. Guys remember to always look good and be confident; confidence is key. Good luck!

 

Nadia Haitham, who is a sixteen year old teenager, fantasizes and creates images in people’s minds using written words. She has always admired the idea of writing ever since she was a little girl with piggy tails and somehow, she’s chasing her dream! Nadia is currently an IGCSE student in The Continental School Of Cairo and she’s in the eleventh grade. They say Nadia is too young but she asks repeatedly, “if I don’t start now, then when?!” She blows her candles on the fifteenth of July, her zodiac sign is Cancer and she’s Egyptian. In 2015, she has written her first completed book that’s called, “Love Of A Teenage Girl” which is published on a writing website called, Wattpad. She has won several awards for the book which she’s planning to publish in the future. Nadia has also written a few other books and created quotes of her own but she hasn’t completed them yet but she’s planning to. She’s into music and learning something new every single day using the help of the social media world. She believes that writing is an underestimated art, it’s exactly like painting colorful images in people’s minds by using words of black and white.

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