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I Hate Flowers and Chocolate’s on Valentines

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We all know the saying “I don’t need a Valentine, I need a Valentino”; yes I am that type of girl. And whenever a guy brings me flowers I feel like “ugh!” it’s not my thing and what will I do with flowers for God ‘s sake?. Can I put it in the fridge and eat it later or keep it in my closet and wear it. If you bring me something simple I can use in my daily life; it will be much better than the useless flowers. Maybe chocolate is better somehow at least I can eat it!  But what if I am not a big fan of chocolate, which is my case, it is not my thing too.

I know you are asking yourself now what do I want the guy to bring me if I hate both flowers and chocolate for Valentine’s and those are the common gifts for such a day?

To make things easier, Valentine’s is the high season of chocolates and flowers. In this case put the money intended to buy chocolates or flowers in better use, buy a useful gift rather than the cheesy chocolates and flowers.

Buy me something I need, high price isn’t a must, it can be everything from a new mobile cover, make up, wallet, or a pair of shoes that you heard me a month ago say “I like them”.

At least I will remember you every time I use it or wear it; I can show it to my friends and tell them that you are the one who bought them as a Valentine’s gift.

The gift is enough, there is no need to wrap it with a glittery pink wrap or a red ribbon and make me hate the day I was born while unwrapping it. A simple nice bag is great without even a card.  It is twenty first a nice Whatsapp message is enough for me. At least when you send it on Whatsapp I can keep it as a live memory and go back to it always, putting a card with the gift may be lost by time. But a Whatsapp’s chat will always be accessible than the card when I am mad at you.

See I am making your life simpler than you ever thought.

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5 Unique Ways To Maintain Long-Distance Relationships

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Many people get excited to leave their hometowns and start a new chapter of their lives, but it’s hard to let go of people who shaped your city into a home — that’s right, the start of long distance friendships. Sadly, it is especially hard to maintain your friends back home during college: You’re busy maintaining rigorous classes, working a part-time job, or just figuring your life out in a whole new location. Luckily, here are some fun, convenient options to maintain long distance friendships!

  1. Snapchat vlogs.
    Snapchat is easy to maintain multiple conversations going with sending one video. With a quick Snapchat video with the location attached, you can tell a story about the area or invite to hang out.
  2. Meme tagging.
    Simple meme tagging on Instagram or Facebook can translate to “thinking of you” or “what do you think about this?” to your friend. It can also spark new jokes or reminiscent old memories with these tags.
  3. Letters.
    Sending letters may seem old school but it can be an entertaining, endearing form of friendship appreciation. You can even make a simple letter more exciting by placing a small polaroid.
  4. Use playlists.
    If you want to maintain an unspoken conversation, just maintain a personal playlist on a certain platform with your friend. You can add throwback childhood songs.
  5. Video chat.
    Though it may be more time consuming than other ways to communicate, Facetime or skype call once a month can makeup weeks of no talking. It’s nice to feel transported into a normal conversation through a video phone call.
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Tips On Having a Healthy Relationship

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Romantic relationships, in all of their complexity, are a fundamental component of our lives. And as the poet Rainer Maria Rilke mused, “there is scarcely anything more difficult than to love one another.” Here are some tips to help maintain a healthy relationships.

  1. See the best in your partner and in your relationship. Research on perception and attention shows that we see more of what we look for, so if you’re looking for signs of kindness, that’s more likely to stand out to you.
  2. Have fun. Couples who engage in exciting and enjoyable activities together have greater relationship satisfaction.
  3. Have good sex. Increasing research is pointing to a great sex life as predicting better relationship satisfaction.
  4. Have a good relationship with yourself. The relationship you have with yourself is arguably the foundation on which your other relationships are built, and studies are supporting this notion.
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5 Things Can Make Your Relationship Fail

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There exists an abundance of tips one can give with regards to relationships. Below are several ones that are strikingly significant and hugely impactful.

 

  • Don’t assume. It is very natural to make assumptions about a lot of things in life. But this becomes deadly within the context of a relationship if approached in the wrong way. So instead of making an assumption and acting accordingly, approach the other person and articulate your assumption. An assumption is only validated through a test, and tool for that in a relationship is communication.
  • Don’t lie. This should come off as being very obvious. Yet it cannot be stressed enough. The other person naturally develops a standard of moral level. Lying leads to a significant reduction in those levels.
  • Don’t build walls. The use of walls here is a figure of speech. Naturally, in any relationship the aim is to connect at various levels. Any action–or in the less obvious sense, inaction–that is not appropriate leads to building walls between you and the other. These walls are not easily broken.
  • Don’t be logical. Not everything can be understood. You would be surprised at the amount of things that you may never understand about the other’s way of thinking, or choice of action. Therefore, there are things that you should not attempt to understand; you should rather develop the capacity to accept, with good grace, that it does not have to make sense to you.
  • Don’t over-do it. If you want to be good, be very good. If you want to be generous, be very generous. If you want to be patient, be very patient. Over-doing any of these, among other things, leads to the development of misunderstanding. The boundaries of the relationship would get reshaped and the nature of the relationship then is bound to change.
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